Join us today In this city of constant entertainment, busy lives and millions of available singles, it can be all too easy to get caught up in the NYC dating whirlwind.If you’re finding that your tales from the front line of New York dating are providing nothing but funny stories to tell at dinner parties, then it’s time to get smart about the places you choose to look for love and meet singles who are genuinely compatible. When users download the app it asks you to swipe (up, down, left, or right) to show how much you love or hate certain things. ‘Hater‘ is the brainchild of Brendan Alper, a former Goldman Sachs employee, and is unique in the fact that it actively matches you with potential partners based on what you mutually hate.Your date is funny, hot, and you both thought the Cronut was stupid, but they live in Sunset Park while you live in Gramercy.
But why would anyone in their right mind want a potential mate (or even just a hookup) to see them red-faced, straining and clad in sweatpants?And can you really have a romantic rendezvous while wiping perspiration off a bike, to the tune of dropping weights and grunting juice-heads?Noah, a Union Square resident who has taken five different girls to Soul Cycle with him in the past six months, thinks that it’s not only possible but a great way to discover a woman’s true personality. More options means more potential for meeting some truly incredible people and having some truly incredible sex with those people. We know you hate the subway because you had to wait more than seven minutes for it that one time (seriously, relax).Struggling to find real love on the NYC dating scene? Our members are intelligent, single professionals – who are looking for a relationship that lasts. Sure, it’s an easy town to have fun in – but if you’re looking for something real, the going can get tough.And on the morning of the Sabbath, He came down from his six-story walk-up for bodega coffee, while She met her friends for boozy brunch and tales of her one-night stand with Him, including the part where -- after the awkward morning Exodus -- she admired his floor-to-ceiling windows and wondered how much rent would be if they ended up moving in together, even though they only slept together one time and She didn’t know His last name. If you’re unmarried and under 40 in NYC, you’re doing just fine. These days, when 87% of your first dates are based on swipe-rights, it’s important to pick a spot with an easy escape route, just in case that mysteriously sexy photo with the sunglasses and beanie obscures pockmarks and a receding hairline. I’m sure your personality is great and kudos on all the degrees, but we don’t have time to invest in you only to find out you’re terrible in bed. If your date (that went really well, by the way) is not calling you back, chances are you really didn’t do anything wrong.